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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for around six months now, he treats me great and I know he does care about me quite alot. This which makes it harder for me to be feeling how i do, because I don't feel as much for him as he does for me. we had a few problems with communicating and I felt this was wrong as we should be able to talk about anything and have fun togeather especially after all this time. I know relationships take time and care and need to be worked on by both people, although we have talked about this and I suggested we see how things go, he has agreed to this and the last week has been alright between us. Although deep down i know i still feel the same and even though I have been trying to make things work I'm just not sure if they can anymore, as i don't have the feelings to do so. Also since we have gotten together I haven't felt very happy in my self and feel I've lost something in me. But i also am undecided as what to do, as I don't want to make the mistakeplease help if you can Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206  +, writes (7 April 2007):
 If you are undecided don't do anything until you're 100% sure. These pages are crammed with letters from girls who dumped their boyfriends only to decide they want them back and it's not fair to do that to someone. If you decide you're definitely not happy though it's okay to finish it. After six months you've had the opportunity to find out about each other and it's okay if you're not totally in love with what you find. If it's not right it just isn't right. Good luck.
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