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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a long term relationship, but i recently met someone else at a party and can't stop thinking about him, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): How do you know that you are going to meet this guy that you can't stop thinking about again? How do you know, if you do ever see him again, that he feels the same way? If you do end up seeing this guy again plus he wants to have a relationship then you should finish with your current boyfriend and be with the other guy. If you never see him again or he doesn't feel the same way then either try and work at your current relationship (there must be some problems with it if you can't stop thinking about another guy) or leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): decide how u really feel about your current boyfriend and what u want from th relationship (if anything).U dont know this new bloke and he may not fulfil your dreams anyway. If u have no long term interest in your current then finish it and be on the market to which u can try new guy. If otherwise put this guy down to 'a fancy' and dont go there.Once u have been unfaithful, even if it fritters out and is never discovered u have already trashed ur current relationship even if u dont know it.Believe me, i know this.
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