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writes:My husband and I have been having relationship problems ever since we got married a bit over a year ago. (We have been together a total of 4 years.) Our problems range from him not helping me around the house, to making “dates” with his ex, to saying insulting things about my appearance.Anyway, we started working on these problems a couple of months ago, but it’s like I’ve already lost so much love for him that I’m finding it really hard to feel the way I used to. It’s even so bad that now I feel icky about having sex with him or even kissing him – I just feel like saying “Get away from me!” I feel so dirty. I hate it. I shouldn't feel that way about my own husband!One of our best friends even decided that she doesn’t want to speak with him or even see him again because of how he's been treating me since getting married. It makes me feel horrible, but it’s not like I did anything wrong...I’m not motivated enough to get couples counseling because part of me feels like giving up and just ending all of this. The other part just wants to stay with him because I don’t want him to be with anyone else. I know that is extremely selfish. And I also get scared thinking about getting a divorce and being single again. I'm only 25 - I shouldn't be thinking about divorce already, right?!I don’t know what to do. This is driving me crazy and I get so depressed.Thank you in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): hun lose the guy and by the sounds of it you have one hell of a good friend if you ask me you don't need that crap it will only get you down even more and you will be unhappy if you don't do something about this but it really is a sign that when your feeling icky after having sex with him something really needs to be done you know?
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