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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and I are both virgins and his penis is too big that we cannot get it up ! what can we do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): Men, she is too stressed by her friends, so it's a big problem (I had one too). Tell her that you'll be gentle, that you will do it slow or let her do the first step by leting her be on-top and control the presure. If she's always looking at you whitch stress her even more - then blindfold her :) (it may be fun:). Good thing also is appropriate mood (candles ect.) and a long foreplay because it lower the stress and helps to forget about the pain. Take your time, and tell her that you will 'enter' whenever she is ready. If she is too 'dry' use some lubricant from sex shop (there are many of them that can even help stimulate you and her :) Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): my and my girlfriend too are virgins and every time we try to have sex my penis wont go in. her vagina does get wet but it just seems to me its not wet enough you know. another problem i think she gets is when she looks at my penis while its going in and complains its going to hurt because its to big. someone please help me because ive tried everything fingering her and all that and she tends to believe her friends and there stories of how the first time hurts then just trusting me.
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female
reader, ingotblue +, writes (7 April 2007):
 Right, it sounds that you arent relaxed enough to take him, I know from experience that it doesnt matter how big it is so long as you are relaxed enough excited enough and well lubricated it will slide in.
If you arent producing enough natural lubrication then try a lube from a sex shop, if you are too shy to go in to a sex shop then any massage BASE oil such as almond, grape seed or even sunflower seed oil will work, DO NOT use an essential oil as this needs to be diluted and should never be used internally.
If you are using condoms then try water based lubes such as ky jelly.happy hunting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): Jendorset is right. He could be stressed out. Try to help him relax more. However if you mean he has trouble entering you then the problem is different. Remember that the female vagina is capable of stretching to give birth so it is capable of taking a penis whatever its size. You are both inexperienced right now, so for the moment just take things slowly. Touch, stroke, massage eachother and get used to what feels right for you both. There is no hurry and if he cares for you , your boyfriend will understand. Trust me, when the time is right it will happen for you and you will both be glad you took the extra time. Good luck.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (7 April 2007):
What do you mean. It doesnt matter how big he is he is still capable of getting an erection. If he cannot get it up he is most likely just stressed out.
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