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writes:When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him.Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - Heres My Story..Hes a Teachers Pet, Goody 2 Shoes Ect Ect, Not My Usual Type But For Some Reason Im Totally Into Him, He Got My Number Of Somebody And Startd Txtin Me..And Then He Asked " Who Do You Fanci " Well i Was Under The Impression That My Friend Had Told Him i Liked Him, So i Replied Thats A Hard Question f our S Clever You Will Be Able To Figure It Out So He Replied "Hmmm Me?" So i Said WOW Ur So Clever What Did You Do Ring Morgan And Ask Her And He Said " No i Was Just Being Big Headed But I Guess It Is Me Now" And Now.. Whenever We See Each Other In School, We Exchange Smiles And If Im On My Own He Will Talk To Me But If Im With Friends He Ignores Me And Im Like Whaaa?? And Then Ill Be Stood In The Yard And Ill Glance At Him And Catch Him Lookin At Me.. And As Soon As He Notices Me Lookin He Turns Away ..On Friday There Was Me 2 of My Friends And Mike On A Corridor And I Was Shoutin To Him To Chat And He Completely Ignored Me.. And Then He Turned Down Another Corridor And As I Passed That 1 I Looked Down It And He Was Lookin At Me Again And Im Realy Confused As To Whats Happeneing Please Help Me I Really Like Him And The Major Problem Is HES LEAVING IN MAY ! ;'[
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reader, MARISSA  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Well,this is actually a very good question i was in here asking one and i came over yours !The thing you should do hunny is talk to him if he dosent talk to you be corageous and text him ask him whats goin on flirt with him ...the worst thing that could happen is that if you dont speak up now you wont ever see him again well i wouldnt say ever but take a few days think it over and role with it darlin ..best of wishes!MARISSA
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reader, PleaseLoveMe_x +, writes (7 April 2007):
PleaseLoveMe_x is verified as being by the original poster of the question Im Not Exactly, The Most Confident Person When it Comes To Relationships. (Im Not Exactly The Prettiest Girl Either) I Do Really Like Him Tho And If I Could Have 1 Wish In The World It Wud Be For Him And Me. My Friend Asked Him A Few Weeks Back What He Liked About Me. And She Said He Smiled And Replied Who Said i Liked Her.
Another Lad Asked Me A Few Nights Ago If I Loved Mike. And My Answer Was, " No I Dont Love Him Just Yet, But If I Got To Know Him More, I think I Would Possibly Fall Inlove With Him"
Whenever People Find Out I Like This Lad. They Always Go " Errr What Do You Like him For" And My Simple Reply Is. I Really Dont Know What It Is about Him But He Makes Me Smile Whenever I Think About him He Gives Me Butterflys At The Sight Of Him And Im Always Thinkin About Him. And they Say. But Its Mike.. And I Reply I Didnt Choose To Like Him It Just Happened And Theres Nothin I Can Do To stop Myself,
So What Your Saying Is He Hasnt MAde Any Forward Approaches As He Is Leaving In May?
And Also In School I Dont Think It Is Possible To Have A Relationship That Truely Means Something To The 2 People Involved As Other People Judge You. So Maybe Him Leaving In May Wont Be Such A Bad Thing And May Open Many Doors For Us Both, I Wouldnt Have A Problem With What Other People Say In the End Its Me And Him That Matter And If I Had My Way I Would Be With Him Right Now..
But I Dont No What He Wants.. Help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): Aaah! Those high school days! As complicated as your situation sounds to tou right at the moment, trust me, there will be a time when you'll look back and it will all make so much more sense to you.
Having said that, have you thought that perhaps this guy that you like so much might just be as confused as you are right now? It's hard to give you advice without knowing much about you or him personally, but I would be pretty certain that that fact that he is leaving in May has a lot to do with why he is holding back from asking you out properly.
You see, it would be easy for me to tell you "bah! He's not that into you!" and let it be. However, from what your telling me of his sideways glances and also that he initiated the texting, it sounds to me that he is attracted to you.... from your description he doesn't sound like the overtly shy type either.... the only thing I can come up with for his distancing is that he is probably uneasy about forming any kind of commitment if he is leaving so soon... I mean, is getting into a relationship with a guy who is (a) leaving and (b) already causing you so much confusion really what you want?
My suggestion to you hun, is: try to talk to him one-on-one about all this and I also seriously recommend keeping it to friendship and let it go. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
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