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writes:Hi Cupid,Help! I have a great boyfriend, however I cant stop thinking about this guy I meet 6 months ago. The new guy and I exchanged #'s but we never met, just chatted. Needless to say we have not chatted in a while and I feel sad. Why do I feel this way, I thought I loved my boyfriend? I can't stop thinking about this new guy either, not good. Any tips to get over these feeling would help.Thanks, soooooooo much! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): If you really love your boyfriend, I would say everytime you think of this other guy, divert your thoughts else where,try to stop thinking about your conversations.This may be difficult, but just try a little at a time. You have to stop talking to this other guy if you do not want to get close to him. People do fall inlove just over the phone sometimes. If your boyfriend is a great guy and you are sure about your feelings for him, then work really hard towards the relationship.I know exactly how you feel and you just fond something in this other guy that attracts you and so you you have these feeling for him. I know becaue, I am in the same situation, I am presently trying to think of other things, and i am presently doing things that I have always wanted to in my life. I am learning two different languages, I pray a lot and I just really trying hard, my situation is more serious than yours because I am married. Try not to stay incontact with this guy. With time, it gets better, you may never forget but it gets better trust me.Praying for you too. Hope that you sort your feelings soon.
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