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writes:Hi,can someone please tell me what kind of a friend would have a complaint about your husband and not tell you ????/She claims that he has been sexually harrasing her for the past 10yrs, telling her that she is sexy and that he wants to have sex with her.Now she knew this I did not, but she never avoided him. She would have me send him over to pick her up.( she does not drive ) She only told me becaue I was furious that I suspected him to be cheatin on me becasue of some woman emailing him inappropriate stuff.I told her that I am determined to find out why he is acting strangly.He denies ever doing any such thing. She does not want to talk about it all three of us. She does not call me to find out how I am doing after dropping a bombshell on me. She calls my house when I am out of town to find out stuff from him. Is this someone really being harrassed ???? Reply to this Question
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 To me it sounds like someone or both of them are lying. The question is where your trust lies and what is that trust based upon. Your friend (if being harrassed) would never call your husband if that was the case. I cant see how she would be comfortable with that knowing what your going through. If she was your friend she might find it diificult to speak to you; but rather you than your husband. Something is not being said here and you need to find out, sooner the better. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): Sounds like neither one of them is telling the truth. You'll have to dig deeper.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2007): You have to ask yourself if you can trust your husband, if you suspect him of cheating I dont think you can. I would not trust your friend either by the sounds of it. She could be the woman who has been emailing him and is trying to cover it up by telling you this. You have to confront your husband and find out his side of this story.
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