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writes:okay. my bf and I made an agreement because of a huge argument we had about his old gf calling him and he calling her back. He promised that if she ever contacts him, no matter the reason that he would share it with me to avoid any arguments. Before when it happened I totally lost trust because he had lied about it to spare my feelings.Well, she did call him again, and again he said it was over something minor. This is the 3rd time, over something minor but yet he still hasn't shared it with me or told me she called even with out 'trust ' agreement and AGAIN him saying so he could spare an agrument.What am I to make of this? If its so minor then why can he share it with me - why hide it? Why continously omit the info until I ask him. He got a call the other night and would not answer it with me there so I gave him 3 days to see if he'd be honest and nothing, so I asked and it was her. I'm at a loss.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (2 April 2007):
 Hi
If its only minor then why has he not told you what it is about?
If its only minor then has she no other friends?
No this is not nice he would not be happy if one of your ex-boyfriends kept ringing and the only answer you gave was," WELL IT'S ONLY MINOR."
You told him how this is making you feel GOOD FOR YOU, but he lied to you to save your feelings, if he had any feelings for you he would understand how you feel and he would not lie and he would tell you what the call is about, he should tell his ex- girlfriend that he has moved on and discourage this girl from ringing him again if he has any feelings for you...
Good luck honey
xx
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