A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I have not had a lot of sexual experience. I do well when the woman is "manually" getting me ready but go limp when I am about to put on the condom. Any suggestions? I also have two other questions but will post in a seperate email. Thanks
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 April 2007):
Hey sweetness,
Here's another idea, why don't you let her put it on for you? With a little practice, she'll get pretty good at it and you won't even notice. Just lie on your back and close your eyes as she gives you some manual/oral stimulation. Tell her before hand to slip on the condom during this time and she can do it for you. She could put it on you with her mouth!
Make it sexy, have fun with it, giggle together... don't rush getting the condom on, there's no need to get frantic. Just enjoy the time together in bed and lavish each other.
Enjoy!
xxIndia
A
male
reader, countrculture +, writes (3 April 2007):
No worries, happens to me all the time. There's something non-exciting about putting on a condom so just put it on and go with it, let it come back. Let your woman know it's not her, it's just that putting the condom on is a moodkiller (not that I'd suggest just not using one, bad idea) and you'll have to let your erection come back.
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