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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey well i am in year 11 and there's a guy in my form who i really like. We aren't really friends, we've known each other since year 7 but we don't know each other too well. However we've recently started talking more over msn and at school. My friend thinks that he might like me because of random stuff he does like random stuff he says to start a conversation, saying hi to me and not really noticing my friend, watching me when I walk past and touching my face randomly in front of people. My friend says that she's seen him look back at me a few times when he's walked away with his mates and he also appears to try and make me jealous by flirting and hugging other girls when he sees me approach. His friends also stare at me a lot when he talks to me and he always smiles at me or says alright mate when he sees me. I'm pretty sure that to him i'm just another girl, mostly a friend and nothing more. My friend thinks otherwise because he brings up things from online conversations and things from a while age, in front of his mates. As well as continuously joke around with me even when he was kind of tipsy. I don't think he has many friends who are girls and aren't in any of his classes so I don't know how he acts around other girls. I think he could know that I fancy him and that is why he is more and more flirty with me. Can some one please tell me whether he thinks of me as a mate ? What should I do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): heya kenny thnks so much 4 ur answer ... well its been a month nd nofing much has happened nd im reali confused cos d guy i lyk was bein reali nice nd stuf sayn hi nd my m8 sed she saw him checkd me out lyk 2 weeks ago nd den a few days l8er i pretended dat i wasnt interested in him nd as he was wlkin down d corridor my m8 sed she saw him look at me nd fink of somefing 2 do nd den he pretended 2 punch me in d face as he wlked past nd den stood oppisite me wid a guy from a year who i didnt fink he reali spoke 2 but ... since dt nufing had reali happened nd he has neva started a convo wid me on msn nemore nd stuff nd im reali confused cos i fink dt dis odder guy who has reali changed (he's a jerk now) myt hav bn slaggin me nd my m8 off 2 him nd mayb dats y he's acting differently now cos d odder day i was wid my m8 nd d guy i fancy nd his m8s started a food fyt nd my m8 threw food bak at dem as a joke nd den he sed sumfing harsh bout my m8!! i was so shocked ! can u xplain his behaviour plz im so confused!?!! :S
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reader, kenny +, writes (2 April 2007):
 From what you have written it does sound like he fancies you, but like you is to she to say anything. So consequently the signs come across as flirtatious gestures. Next time he flirts with you flirt back, try to hold eye contact with him for a few seconds then smile and look away. playfully touch him when you get a chance, and try to be interested in what he does, or is doing, and laugh at things he says, even if you dont find it funny.
When you think you have got a good raport going ask him if he fancies doing something one evening or weekend.
Good luck x
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