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writes:Me and my wife have been married for 2 years.she got a new job then about december time she started to go out about three times a week with work friends.They were lesbians.she has told me she has been unhappy with our relationship for a while as i do not show any more affection and said i would change.she then told me three weeks it was over there was nobody else just didnt love me in that way anymore.it has been hard to take.a girl who she works with ex girlfriend who split up 4 weeks ago is at my house all the time (apparently to keep her company), i heard two weeks ago my wife and her were a coulpe and she denied it.then she told me on saturday that were and item now.so says they have only got closer in the last week and have kissed a few times but nothing else.i jsut dont know what believe, i think it has been going on awhile but she denies that.but i dont understand how you can get affection to another girl in a week no matter how upset you are?especially as she been married to me?as was all that alie as wellor is she just on the rebound and isnt relly a lesbian and this girl just was there when she is upset?and my wife thought she woudl try it
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (2 April 2007):
 Hi,
I think you just hit the nail on the head yourself. She was there and your wife has tried it. Maybe she felt like this for a long while, and has now been given the chance to try this out,!!! who knows?.
You cant make her stay with you, if she doesn't want to. But she is with someone else now, so at least you can move on. I know its really hurtfull, but you will be OK.
Life throws crap at us now and again, and we have no choice but to deal with it.
Maybe your wife's fling wont last, and she will regret your split. But by then, hopefully you will have moved on.
If she has been up to no good for a while, why would you want her anyway .
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