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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey,I'm pretty confused about myself that is anyway, I don't know whats the matter with me. I have this amazing girlfriend that I love and have done for quite some time now but I'm worried that due to me being so insecure she may leave me, we're both very insecure and have trouble accepting a lot of things. Our over main problem is trust we both know we wouldn't do anything to hurt each other we're to much in love for that, Basically all I ask is for someone to come forth with some trust exercises or something that will make us more confident with each other.thanks
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reader, nologo +, writes (3 April 2007):
The most important thing that must be in every relationship is sufficient amount of Communication.
Without it there is no relationship as such at all - even if there are feelings they lead nowhere.
Communication is also needed to build trust in a relationship.
"I'm worried that due to me being so insecure she may leave me, we're both very insecure and have trouble accepting a lot of things".
Spend more time together that also will make you more confident with each other.
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reader, so-n-love +, writes (3 April 2007):
Me and my girlfriend have trust problems also. What you and your partner need to do is hang out with other friends, don't think "is she cheating on me" you need to think, "man i can't wait to see her beautyful face agian", change it all to a positive thing. try to do things that intrest you when you feel insecure play video games, talk to a friend about how you feel, you stay busy! You need to be secure with yourself because untill you do that, you will allways be insecure with your girlfriend. And most of all you need to talk to her, make plans, see how BOTH of you can overcome this.
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