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writes:I am almost 17 and recently I have been having some very strong sexual feelings towards my father. They started about 3 months ago when I saw him in the shower. Please help me, I dont know what to do. Do I say something to him or do I wait and see what happens? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): he is your father and you should't be thinking about that sort of stuff.. he has brought you into this life and now you have feelings for him. I would stop, get yourself a boyfriend and then it would take your mind off it ok? Just dont do nothing with your father dont even tell him because then he will feel stupid and wouldnt even look at you and your mother would be very upset!! so just get yourself a boyfriend ok?
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reader, Blue Rat +, writes (3 April 2007):
We can't help our sexual urges, but we can and must control inappropriate ones. I'm afraid that not only is any kind of sexual relationship with your father morally wrong, it is also illegal and would have severe repercussions for you both.
I think you should seek external help if you don't think you can trust yourself to keep this urge under control until it passes, which I'm sure it will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): Hi! It is normal at your age having sexual feelings, so don't worry about it. But also don't let this feelings reign your life! Use your brain - I beliefe, I have a common sense! Don't muddle up sexual feelings, failing in love and real love. This are three very different things! Having a sexual relationship with your father is not loving hin and it would ruin your relationship to him and any future boyfriend.
It depends on your relationship with your father wether to tell him or not, hi may can help you getting off of this feelings, but I would rather not. In your position I would try to get some extern help.
So, it's normal having sexual feelings, nearly everyone has it, but it's up to you how you deal with it!
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