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writes: I am 17 and my girl friend is 2 months away from being 16 and she wants to have sex. i think we should wait a while but she dose not want to wait. I am not going to lie I want to do. What should I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, xcherryx  +, writes (5 April 2007):
 Wait until she is 16. It will be more special and she will remember it.x
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reader, TakeItOrLeaveIt  +, writes (4 April 2007):
 hey!:) its 2 months.. u mite as well wait... wait until she's 16.. its better and safer... its not that long.... wait
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): I think you should wait. But you should trust your gut, and do whatever feels right. You have to be sure that you love her, don't just think you do. If you two are still together in 2 months, then you'll know it was for the right reasons..Good luck!
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reader, stina  +, writes (2 April 2007):
 Hi there Flame,
Having sex with someone who isn't yet 16 could get you in some legal trouble. Waiting two months is going to be frustrating, I know, but it would be better than facing the consequences if something should happen, right?
Plus it would allow you time to get to know one another even better before hopping in the sack together. You don't want to regret anything - and I'm sure she doesn't either.
And if you two are still togther in 2 months, then at least you both know it's more for the right reasons...
You know what you should do - go with your gut.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): Wait until she is 16. If you don't then you could end up in serious trouble with the police. You don't want that do you? Also if she wants to be with you she won't want you in trouble with the police.
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reader, LittleTwoLegs +, writes (2 April 2007):
 Make her wait.Why? A number of reasons. Sex is something to be shared, it is a gift that two people give to one another. If she wants sex, and is demanding sex when you feel that your relationship is not yet ready for it, she is obviously more interested in herself recieving the gift than giving anything to you, and it should not be that way. Do not have sex with anyone until you are certain that you are emotionally ready for the responsabuilities that come with it, and until you're positive not not only as a couple but individually that you are solid people who're happy with the way things are going in your lives. Sex is another thing that you will have to be managing and if you're having a hard time managing other things it may cause a downfall for you and your partner, especially at this tender state of your relationship.If she ditches you? All the better because you'll find out that she wasn't interested in you as a person at all, just the vestle you inhabit to further her own experiences. Do not let her selfishness determine how you use your body, because in the end it is YOUR body and YOUR decision, no one else's.
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reader, Handycam +, writes (2 April 2007):
BaileyJ is right, it does depend on the person and some people sexually mature quicker than others.
However, if you have sex with her before she is 16 you are breaking the law. If you were found out you would be put on the sex offenders register which will affect your whole life. With that in mind, 2 more months is not a long time to wait.
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reader, Bailey J +, writes (2 April 2007):
 Even though the legal age to have sex is 16 it depends on the person. Some young girls/boys do have sex before they reach the legal age. If you feel you are ready and you understand about contraception and STD’s then it’s your choice together as a couple. (Don’t forget though 2 months of being together is not very long)
However I would suggest that you talk about what kind of contraception your girlfriend is taking… if none WAIT until she see her doctor and gets prescribed with the pill. (Then wait until she has been taking it a month)
Having sex (losing your virginity) with someone is a big step, make sure you have talked it through properly!! Make sure you have the correct knowledge regarding sexual transmitted diseases (std’s) and make sure you are aware of the risk of an unwanted pregnancy. I think at 15 I personally don’t think your mature enough to take this in to consideration.
Once you have thought all this trough and discuss the above with your girlfriend… I would from there make a decision.
Take Care
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