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writes:I would like some advice, we have been married many years and my husband keeps requesting for us to get some porn DVD's to watch together, now I'm not so sure that this is a good idea after reading some of the stories on this site, and I don't want to be storing trouble up for later in the future, so do I keep saying no and try and spice our love life up in some other way, he obviously wants some more excitement otherwise he wouldn't be wanting these films would he, any advice please.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (2 April 2007):
 BEENTHEREDONEIT gives you good advice. Communication is the key here.
Talk to your Husband, tell him how you feel about the porn DVDs, talk to him about what you have read. Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with, and don't be pressured into participating in something you are not happy doing.
All the best x
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (2 April 2007):
 Hi Babes,
If you are happy to do this then go for it but never do anything that you really don't want to do otherwise you may resent him for it.
Tell him your fears and see what he has to say, comunication is the number one key....
Let him know your open to new things to spice up your love life ask him what his fantasies are and tell him yours, this is a geat way of spicing up your love life,
There are numerous outfits out there ,you can loose yourself into that particular character and therefore wont feel so silly...
Go shopping together he will let you know what he likes trust me........
Good luck
x
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