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*uxtaposition
writes:Should I still trust him? My boyfriend were going out for a year. Then suddenly he broke up with me, with not that good of an explanation. At that time, he got pretty close with another girl, and 3 weeks after our break up, he admitted to me that he likes her and it only started on that day. Then couple weeks later, he said he still liked me. I was hesitant of being with him at first, then i decided to let in a second chance. And now I dont trust him that much. He also keeps talking to that girl. I told him im not comfortable with it, but he still talks to her. Is there a reason for this? Do I have a right to dislike them talking to each other?
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reader, juxtaposition +, writes (13 April 2007):
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (11 April 2007):
 Sounds like he cant make up his mind. Trust is a fragile thing which people sometimes take for granted. If he was at all serious about your relationship he would consider your feelings in all of this. What he done was wrong and you have every right to question the trust.
He should be trying to earn back that trust and it doesnt seem like he wants to do that, or willing to try. If your trust is that badly damaged the relationship will not last long. The ball is and should be in his court. He should be doing all the work after everything he has put you through. Stand a hard ground, dont move a muscle. You have ever right to ask the things you have been asking, so dont think you are being unreasonable. Moving the goal post for him will only end with you getting hurt and feeling used. He owes you if he really wants this to work.
Be tough with that one.
Best wishes..
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