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writes:i am 18 and i am seeing 26 year old man and i am confused about what he really wants from me. He talks about the future but what about now what am i supposed to wait or just move on its hard because i have feelings for him that are strong.I caught him beating off and it turned me off to think that all he thinks of our relationship is sex. what am i supposed to do?
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reader, penta +, writes (11 April 2007):
 It's hard to get enough about your relationship from your question. Unless I completely understand you, it sounds like you aren't having sex yet; you want to but he doesn't. Is that right?
I think you should slow down. He's probably worried about the age difference, and wants to make sure you're okay (as a couple) before moving on. He's probably also concerned about you and how young you are. You'll have to show him you're mature enough to handle a physical relationship.
Honestly, if this is the case, I think you have a catch worth waiting for. Enjoy it.
Of course I could be COMPLETELY WRONG about the situation. If so, please post again.
And about catching him beating off: get over it. 90% of all men masturbate, and the other 10% are lying. It doesn't have anything to do with you.
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