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writes:I have a very physical relationship with my boyfriend which I love. He is highly sexed and masturbates usually a couple of times a day as well. I don't mind this, as sometimes I do it for him. Recently, however, he's asked me if he can ejaculate all over my face. He says he's seen this in porn movies and he thinks it's really horny. I'm not sure I like it or if it is very respectful. Also, I don't know if I want my face covered in semen 2 or 3 times a day. I really love him and I'd hate to disappoint him. Can you help?
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (13 April 2007):
You are young, so it's a good time to learn these two very important things:
#1. Your body is your own. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Any man who does not respect this, is not one you want to spend your life with (or any time, for that matter). That doesn't mean we should only do things that turn us on wildly. But it does mean that if something seems gross to you, or if it makes you feel uncomfortable... then don't do it, and don't let anyone make you.
#2. Nothing that is safe in sex is bad. There is nothing "nasty" about sex if it between two consenting adults. I personally don't know why any guy would find it exciting to come all over someone's face, especially someone with reservations about it. But that's me. If you were to enjoy it, or at least not mind it, then there is nothing at all wrong with it. I'm sure it wouldn't happen twice a day!
I don't know what his sense of humour is like, but maybe next time he comes, if you can get a hold of some of it, get ready to smear it all over his face. If it grosses him out, ask him why he wants to subject you to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): My husband likes to come on me, but I hate it in the face. So he masturbates aiming at my face, but when the moment comes I trust him to change aim and hit me in the chest. It's a compromise.
If he hit me in the face even once I wouldn't trust his aim ever again, and he knows this, so he doesn't abuse the priveledge.
It's up to you whether you do what he wants, some compromise, or nothing at all. Your body your rules. It sounds like you accomodate him quite a bit, so he should be happy overall.
Maybe he's got a birthday coming up, and you could try it on that special occasion -- and never again if you hate it. Then he'd have to do something special for you on your birthday...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): Up to you on that one.If you find it degrading dont - if it doesn't physically bother you - no harm done!
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reader, DrCynic  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I dunno... It's probably not that horrible an expirience if you're adventurous... If you didn't like it you could just never do it again...
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reader, pfairypepper +, writes (12 April 2007):
I say try everything once, if you don't like it tell him that was the first and last time.
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reader, Kody  +, writes (12 April 2007):
There is a saying
(I can't change the direction of the wind but I can set my sails to reach my destination) Only you can choose what you want to do.It's up to you to decide this.And I hope you choose the right desision for you and your boyfriend.
Your Friend Kody
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reader, rk06 +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Just be honest with him. If you dont like it, tell him. I'm sure he would appreciate your honesty.
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