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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive just started dating a man who is older. Now obviously he appealed to me because he is good looking and more mature than guys my age. What i want to know is, what is the appeal of younger women to older guys? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (11 April 2007):
 Physical beauty, symmetrical features and youth represent good genes and fertility and biologically the male is drawn to this. Nature is very clever. It's the same reason why young men are beautiful AND have an enormous sex drive. Women sexually peak in there 30's and 40's, nearer the end of the childbearing years, thereby encouraging women to continue having children, at the same time, men's sexual urges are becoming less urgent. Women are drawn to a physically powerful man (protector) and to powerful, successful men (provider). Most of the time, nature is just there pushing you towards continuing the species. On of the most attractive thing about young women has been proven, the waist to hip ratio - a symbol of fertility. Women who approach the end of there fertile years have a thickening at the waist. I think a lot of this ingrained behavioural knowledge has become part of human nature. Jane Pratt wrote - Women are women from birth. A woman of thirteen is more like a woman of fourty-five than she is like a boy of thirteen. Most thirteen-year-old women have more love wisdom in their little fingers that than men of any age have anywhere - in a story called - Old Dudes, What Do Young Women Want? I always thought that was a pretty intuitive description. Men will always admire beautiful young women!
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (11 April 2007):
 Hmmm, let's see. Could it be that an older man likes a younger women because of her hot, kickin', body? Maybe. Could it be that an older man likes to feel younger by having a young, hot looking woman on his arm? Possibly. Could it be that an older man sees a younger woman as someone he can mold into the woman he can control? Could be. Could it be that an older man falls in love with a younger woman because he finds her intellectually stimulating, extremely caring, and overwhelmingly sensual? Most definitely!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): You've already said it, older guys are more mature than guys your age. Girls are more mature (usually) than guys their age.
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