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writes: Hello everyone,Okay... There's this guy who I've known for a little over 7 years. Three years ago he had wanted to start a relationship with me which caught me by total surprise since I never looked at him in that way. He is a very great guy but at that time he was suffering from lung cancer and I didn't want to grow attached and not know whether he'd survive the cancer or pass away. I really didn't know if I could have handled losing him. Well now three years have passed and a couple of weeks ago had seen him for the first time, the cancer is gone .. I really never had gotten over him and would like to have something with him. But I'm really not sure how to go about it since I really dont know if he would still be interested in me. Any Suggestions on how I should go after this guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, Zim  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I would recommend being honest with him. He liked you enough in the past to want to start a relationship with you. It can't hurt to ask him if he would like to have one now can it? He won't have a problem with you saying no before, your reasons are perfectly legitimate. In fact, he will probably be very flattered that you still like him after three years! Good luck. I hope it goes well.
ZIM
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