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writes: my b/f doesnt work in an office..but doesnt leave at an exact time everyday..like he will say this job took longer than expected or i was cleaning out my truck etc etc..so sometimes he gets home at like 6pm or sometimes 7..if we were living together..i probably would be mad if someone kept getting home at different times..does this mean he is cheating? i dont see him everyday...i can call his cell and we usually about once in the afternoon. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): hi,your b/f getting home at diffrent times doesnt mean he`s cheating but the excuses he`s giving you are very poor and you need to examine all possibilities such as how long has this been going on,has his appearance changed,is he buying new clothes for work?if you dont get any further with that,try meeting him at the office as a suprise meet and see what you come up with there,if he is cheating this is where you will find out, other than that he`s doing exactly what he said he`s been doing
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 If it's just an hour in the variation of his arrival time at home, chances are he's not doing a lot of cheating on you. Most women who are seeing a guy will demand more of his time than just a quick hour before he goes home.
Put yourself in the hypothetical "other woman's" place. Would you put up with just letting a guy slip in for a quickie for one hour a couple of times a week? I don't think so.
If he comes home at 6:00 one day and 10:00 the next, regularly, and has his cell phone shut off for those four hours in between, then I'd start worrying. But don't sweat one hour. He's probably got that much variation in his normal work schedule.
Relax.
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