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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my bf has really hurt me. we've been together for 3yrs and obviously had our gd n bad times as any couple does. we took a brief break over a year ago and we both made new friends. sadly theres this one girl (his x's best mate, the girl he saw on the break) who he was texting sexual stuff to wen we were back together. i saw the messages and told him its her or me i wont b a mug. he chose me her number was deleted n he told her to leave him alone. that was that or so i thought. a week later we went out to dinner and this girl came up into conversation, i believe i asked if hed heard from her. he sed yes, she asked him to be her bf. so i asked what his reply was n he sed he told her no as he is not interested in her that way. which was a gd thing to hear but at the same time he could've sed he has a gf but i got ova that bit. a few days later i started gettin withheld numbers callin me at wrk and my mobile abusin me and sayin things that we both feel is this girl. the person callin finally slipped up and i now have their mobile number. i called it and it was this girl. i didn't confront her as im not sure whether to go to the police or not. my bf came round today and i showed him the number and told him it was this girl. so he gets his phone out looks thru his phone book n lo n behold her numbers in there agen even tho he promised me he wud never talk to her agen. i cant help but wonder if some of the things she's been tellin me over the phone r tru seein as they may neva ave stopped bin in contact. i asked him y he has her number agen n he sed it was to do with some carpentry jobs she wanted done round her house. how can i make him see being in touch with her is driving me crazy n that he should've told me the truth bout talking to her again especially if it was just to do private work im not sure if i can trust him again
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): oh u poor poor girl....i really feel 4 u , ok heres wat i think....this guy wants 2keep his options open, ok he did choose u but can u honestly say that u dont feel insecure bout this other girl ? i mean if your questioning whether u should trust him r not its a good sign that u hav good reason not 2 ! i know u r prob tryin ur best but i think u should ask him y he had her no. in his fone again esp after u thought it was deleted ?
ask him how wud he feel if u werein his posotion ?
i hope it works out, either way keep ur head up high !! xx
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