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male
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30-35,
*geek
writes:ok I am in a predicament.....i have a major crush on this girl she is 1.5 years younger than me....that isn't the problem the problem is that she has a kid. It is just a very odd situation....we met on the internet and we talk allot she lives in the same town as me we have talked on the phone, i have seen her.....etc but my parents would surly not approve of me even looking at a 15 year old parent......so....yea what can i do about this?
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reader, Sparkles  +, writes (12 April 2007):
I think that you are focusing too much upon what others will think of your relationship and too little on what you actually think of it yourself. If you truly care and want to be with this girl then it shouldnt matter if she has a child or not however you do have to consider that it will mean that you will have to also form a relationship with the child . If you have considered these factors then i suggest that you take things slowly until you are fully aware of your true feelings and hers. As for your parents i believe that as long as you explain the sittuation as a mature adult acknowldging both the good and the bad factors then they will respect our decsion. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): Your parents don't want you looking after a kid which isn't yours at your age. You are only young yourself. Why do you want to feel trapped like that at your age. If you did end up living her a few years later you'll have the stress of making money for not only yourself but her and her daughter. You might have more than one job to cover the costs of your girlfriend and her child. You don't want that do you? So move on and find a girl that doesn't have a child at your age. After all this girl maybe only looking for friendship from you.
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