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writes:hi can someone please help, me an my girlfriend have been trying for a baby for the last few months, but were having trouble, when ever were having sex i can only come on her never inside her, i dont no y and its getting to the point were im thinking there could be somthing really wrong with me, its upsetting for me so i cant imagine how shes feeling, i love her so much and am afraid that i might lose her if i dont sort it out soon, i really want us to be a happy family but until i get this sorted i dont think its going to happen. thanks
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reader, DrCynic  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 You two are a little young for children yet... Give it a couple more years and call us back in the morning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): Why are you and your girlfriend trying for a baby, you are not married, both very young? Why are you putting having a baby first before marriage? Maybe your brain is trying to tell your body to slow down and do the right thing and make this relationship a legal one before bringing a child into the world in an unstable relationship that either of you could leave at anytime with no real responsibility towards the child, other than providing sperm.
It takes a lot more than that to be a father, and a happy family...have you worked this all out, how will you raise the child? How will you support them both? How many kids do you plan to have, what schools will they attend? How will you teach them about religion, what are your values about money? Have you made plans for child care while you are both working or can you afford to have one of you stay home....?
I don't think there is an answer to your orgasm issue, it is all in your head, the one you think with, so do some thinking first and some talking and some planning and take your time starting that family , after you are legally married to the child's mother.
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