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I dated him 7 months, we broke up but I love him, He said maybe we can be together in 2-3 yrs, is this likely or even possible!?

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Question - (1 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *uppy* writes:

what can i do? Im a 15 year old nearly 16 and I think im in love. For 7 months me and my boyfriend was going out and said we loved each other every day, but he moved away 2 months ago, he has since dumped me and said he has a new girlfriend. I asked him if we ever have a chance of being together as i love him soo much and he said in maybe 2 or 3 years and we both still have these feelings for each other then he would like something to happen. Is it possible for us to ever be together? He says he loves me but as we live to far apart we can't carry on being together. All i want is to be with him and he says the same.

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A female reader, cuppy* United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2007):

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he left because his mum inhetrited his nan's house when she died. she couldn't sell it so decided to sell her house and move there instead. i guess what you have both said makes sense but if you're right that means he's lying to me :( i am soo confused right now. the trouble is though he rang me about 15minutes ago and said he would like to meet up so he can talk to me. about something. he sounded really excited on the phone so i think it might be something good. I hope he's saying he is going to move in with his dad as he lives just around the corner but if what you say is true then i don't know. Thanks for your help neways even if its confused me. I do kind of understand your point of views i just don't want to see them from that point of view. Thanks its really appreciated.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2007):

kenny agony auntOk so you both were in a relationship together for seven months, he moved away finished with you and got another girlfriend. I think that telling you that you are going to be together in 2 or 3 years is leading you on, giving you a false hope of being together. After all he is giving you this hope while he is in a relationship with someone else.

Alot can happen in three years, you are still very young, the likellhood is you will have met someone else by then. I woulden't dwell on the situation to much, go out enjoy yourself, enjoy being young, and whatever will be will be.

Good luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007):

If he has another girlfriend so quick. then i dnt think he truly loves u. he will probly be telling her he loves her too. and 2-3 years is a long long long time. by then u too will probly love someone else. he doesnt want to hurt ur feelings is what i can see.. he has someone else. it is possible to b with him again. i just think its unlikely as alot of things change. ur nearly 16.. in 2-3 years ul b almost 19 and b in uni of college or working and have met millions of new people. i think u should think about letting go. you both are rather young.

why did he leave?

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