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anonymous
writes:How do you know when you are being used? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): you mean used for sex ?
Test him this,
Ask him to go on a trip,movie,concert, hiking,.....
any activities , try a few times...
If he is really into you and not just using you for sex
he will want to spend time with you to just be with you ,
after all , he loves you right ?
But if all you do just sleeping together and never really
did anything else , you are just his cheap account.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): Well you really didn't give us much info to go on, so this may be hard to answer. You know you're being used by someone who claims to be a friend, but seems to make you pay for everything, or always borrows things, or money and never returns them, loses them, or damages your things. You know you're being used when someone asks you out on a date, that doesn't seem to go anywhere but to their bedroom. They're not interested in getting to know you and learn about who you are and how you think. They only want a "good time" and then you don't hear from them again until their in the mood for another "good time". Over time, you will become more keen to spotting the users and hopefully steering clear of them. Best of luck to you and I hope this helped you out.
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reader, blondie1994  +, writes (1 April 2007):
You are being used when you know that someone wants to get in good with you for something you have, whether it be material wealth, a friend he likes, or any number of other things.
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reader, kenny +, writes (1 April 2007):
 there are many factors that could initially point to being used, such as he could keep wanting to borrow money from you. Maybe going out with you to make someone else jealous. Without knowing anything about your situation its hard to say.
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reader, Melanne +, writes (1 April 2007):
 This is a hard one to answer because you do not give any information about your situation.
Basically a real friend will tell you the truth no matter how much it hurts. A friend will always stand by you even when things are bad. A real friend will be interested in what you do and show that they are interested. A real friend will comfort you when you cry.
If you have any doubt about the friendship then it probably is that they are not your real friend.
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