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anonymous
writes:Hello, ive asked for help before and had some great advice so hoping you can help me today. My husband and I split 8 months ago, im just starting to feel ok again - we've had very little contact other than discussing money for our mortgage payment or conversations about the sale of our house. Yesterday he text me asking how i was and how my dad and nephew were, totally out of the blue, we then continued to have a conversation where he said he would like us to meet up to talk as we have spent too long silent. Im getting the feeling from this that he may now realise what a huge mistake he made leaving our marriage however I have made changes to myself and my life and I dont think i want him in it any longer. Am i wrong to feel this way?, I told him that nothing could be gained from meeting up - I want to sell the house, buy my own place and start a new life. It may sound harsh but he has caused me so much hurt and upset these past months, and I dont think i want that life again. Sorry its a long note, would be grateful for any advice.
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reader, so-n-love  +, writes (3 April 2007):
 he caused you so much pain in the past, right? well why would you want to go back to that? you have already moved on and have been tring to make your life better. What ever happen is in the past and i hope you forgave him, but forgiving someone doesn't meen to go back to the broken home you came from. Now if you feel like it could work after yall meet up just remember, "they are always nice in the begining". But if your heart leads the same path it did before, just follow your heart. Good Luck!
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