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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok i need some help...me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 months 3 weeks and i love her more than anyone ive ever met in my life and she felt the same way until about 2 weeks ago when she said she started to like another guy but she wasent sure and she pushed that tought aside...not its a little over 2 weeks later and she broke up with me this friday after thrusday she said she needed a "break" and when she asked for the break she said she didnt love me like i love her and she was going to take a little break to try to find the love agian...the next day at lunch he friends are like sorry you guys broke up and im like no no no were just on a break...then they go and hang out with her for a few minutes and then she comes over to me and says "were done thats what ive been trying to say all day today",i got her a rose to try to fix stuff and i wrote her love notes and all of that and she was like oh noo you dont need to do that, and yea she said she though she was falling for someone else and then shes like we can still be friends...go out to dinner and movies and stuff and do all that just not as BF and GF. (side story)i gave her a promis ring for our 6 month anny. theres alot more to it than just giving it to her too...the story behind the ring was that we though she was pregnant...i know were only 15 but yea...lots of stuff there to much for here(and also it wasent like our first time ethier, weve been haveing sex sience we were going on our 2nd month going out)...and she loved me soo much and i could tell...and yea...she says she loves me now but just as a friend and not hw i love her and that she likes someone else but she dosent know if it will work out with him and if it dont she might come to me cause she might see the mistake she made and stuff like that...weve talked about how we found the love and we decided it was love at first site cause there wasent anything there to trigger our love so we decided on that result...my question is...even though it may sound like a lost cause i would like to know how to try to win her love back...anything that would help would be apreciated...Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): You can't. You can never force someone to love you. No matter how much you love them. All you can do is let her go, move on with your life and if it's meant to be, then she may come back. She may also not come back. So give it a time limit. Say, 6 months. Then make a fresh start with someone new and eventually, as they say, time heals all wounds. This too shall pass. You're both young. You have your whole life ahead of you to fall in love with someone who will love you back. And that's really all it's about. Don't waste time with this one. She can't make up her mind anyhow. Good luck.
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