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writes:When i'm drunk, occassionally i'm taken advantage of a fair bit, not overly far or anything, some guys will just start feeling me up yet when i wouldn't want them to. I do stop them from doing this but not immediately, like my common sense doesn't kick in till a while later. Is this wrong of me? I feel like i'm becoming a bit of a sl*t when i am actually nothing like one in real life, more an overly insecure type.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): Don't get drunk! I feel you are putting yourself in a very vulnerable and dangerous position - who is to say that the next guy doesn't take advantage even more? As you see this as a problem, limit yourself to one or two drinks and absolutely no more and if your friends give you stick for being a lightweight then they aren't being good friends and looking out for you so drop them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): Kenny gives you good advice. You need to be aware of not putting yourself in danger and to take care of yourself. I could tell you some terrible stories of female friends who have ended up getting raped through being drunk and not properly being able to make responsible decisions. If you get drunk around anyone but your closest female friends then you are always putting yourself at some degree of risk - it's sad yet a fact of life. Girls who get drunk and have men take advantage of them often end up having emotion problems related to do with relationships, sex, men and intimacy. Don't let yourself be one of those girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): being in the situation your self and doing some really stupid things this weekend and i jsut let it happen they even asked and told me they werent there to take advantage of me but still let them do it , being drunk makes me feel sexy so i jsut let go you can always say no if things get out of hand
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reader, kenny +, writes (1 April 2007):
 I woulden't drink to the excess where it takes you a while to realise a guy is touching you up. There is nothing wrong with drinking, but its about knowing when to stop. Don't let these guy's think they can touch you when they want, your worth more than that. Next time it happens nip it in the bud straight away.
Good luck x
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (1 April 2007):
 Maybe you just shouldn't drink as much as you do then. Or don't put yourself in those kind of situations anymore if that's how you feel. I personally think that's wrong, but you are your own person. Only you can change what happens to you and what you do. Just make the best decision for yourself.
GOOD LUCK!!! Hope this helps!
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