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writes:me and boyfriend been going out for 2 years and i love him so much, but we agree almost everyday. i dont know what to do anymore but i cant leave him. he calls me names but when things are good it's good. when it's bad it goes over the top. i need and want help. he chooses his friends over me and i just want to be with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, LittleTwoLegs +, writes (2 April 2007):
 I'll be blunt: This isn't going to change. You don't deserve to be treated this way or called these names because it is ALL because of his insecurity with himself. Two years is a long time, but if things haven't already changed, I'm sorry to tell you they're not going to. This is abuse, just as bad as if he were physically abusing you, and you cannot stand for this, you are worth so much more than what he tries to lower you down as. Get out of this relationship as soon as possible: Make him absolutely hate you so that you don't have to talk. I am so serious about this, because it's the only cure otherwise he's going to keep playing you like a puppet, and I know you're very well strong enough to now take control of your life and who you share the deepest parts of yourself with. Do not let it be this person who is so unworthy. You will see as time goes on and the bandages heal (I know it's hard to let go) that it was all for the better and you're a better person because of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): you are very young get rid of this guy.one day he will be a distant memory.you are far too young to have problems like this.you definetly dont neet a guy whos gonna call you names at any age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): He's being nasty to you plus you argue all the time, why would you love and want to be with a guy like that? You are only young and should be having fun on the dating scene, not putting up with all of this. Dump him, for your sake, and find a guy which will treat you with respect.
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