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female
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30-35,
*uth2203
writes:Dear cupid , i feel so stupid writing this , i need a way out im screaminig inside , even if i dont get any replies i suppose writing it down helps rightwednesday about 2 weeks i split up with my boyf of one year and 3 months , im 16 hes 23 he lives in leeds i live in brum jsut doesnt work , so that friday i went out with my girls and had a bit to drink we went to to a club and i met this guy i got his number all was good , then the ex found out and he got angry , there has been this guy who is known as abit of player , who had a girlfriend and didnt think to tell me we have been friends a while , hes being dying to meet me lately but i refused , but i was single i had nothing to loose , we kissed i felt so happy again, the day after we slept together it was good, even though it was wrong he had a girlfriend , he told her and he told me they were still together then he ignored me for a few days we agreed to meet but his mate commited sucide and the day after i went to a funerel of my late grand mother he eventualy saw me thursday and he had a big cuddle and i told him how i feel, we went for a drive in his mini and had sex in a field i then went and took an over dose of pills and passed out i felt so alone , he called and told me his girlfriend was away for 2 weeks and that they had agreed to go on a break it was friday again and I went drinking with my girlfriends , we met some guys and I got so drunk. I stumbled to the train station where he came and pick me up i was really drunk, we went to a field and i fell over he kissed me and that was that we had sex and he didnt force me on him but it wasnt what i wanted thank god im on the pill , the thing is i really love this guy even if he does play me around i know he has a reputation of a player but i really dont know what to do i feel like because i didnt grieve because i lost the one i truly love feels like im not over it and now its hits me i really dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): You probably dont want to hear this but if sex wasnt part of the relationship he probably would not be interested, has he introduced you to his parents? Or taken you to his home?
Walk away from a guy who is only available when his girlfriend is not around.Look for another guy to be friends first if you want a stable relationship. Plenty of time for sex later.
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