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writes: My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 years ago. In those 4 years he has kept in touch with me. He always wants to have sex with me. Why wont he move on? He broke up with me! What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2006): Break of ALL contact with him. He's your ex for heaven's sake!
Ex means finished, over, done with, end of. As in: you don't go out together any more, you don't email, talk on the phone, etc. YOU DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM ANY MORE.
I can understand calling an ex once, months after the break-up, just to say hi, how are you, but that should be it - UNLESS you both want to get back together again.
Give your ex his marching orders! (As in: go away and stay away - for ever).
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reader, stina  +, writes (8 September 2006):
 Hi Anon,
I agree with Martini (although I'm a little bit nicer like Lostandalone! hee hee). The only thing you can do is ignore him. The more you do it, the more he's going to know you mean what you say. If you keep having sex with him, he's going to keep asking. Who wouldn't, you know? You really can't blame him for thinking nothing's wrong if you keep giving in. It also might be a good idea to break contact with him for a while if he doesn't seem to get the message.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): He likely wants to have sex with you because......he's horny/he's not getting it elsewhere/has a penis/liked the sex you two had/thinks youre weak enough to cave in and let him.
Ignore him....unless that is, you want to have sex with him and like that unbelievably crappy feeling afterwards when you realised that someones used you.
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (7 September 2006):
 Martini, Martini *shame shame once again*. I agree but man you really lay it on. Great advice though!!! I agree with Martini (not so harshly). Just don't talk to him. It shouldn't matter what he wants, thinks or worries about. You're not with him so don't answer his calls or change your number if worst comes to worst. Don't let him treat you like this. Its obvious he doesn't respect you so don't be bothered. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): I agree with Martini. Please move on with your life.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (7 September 2006):
 Tell him that God gave him a hand for a reason. . . and it wasn't just wiping his ass.
LOL.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): Stop pondering on why he wants this and that and just not do anything! You obviously don't have anything better to do than ask such a dumbfounded question as to what you should do for a question with such an obvious answer.
Sometimes, some people need to a really blunt object to their face to realize there are bigger problems in life than wondering why an ex of 4 years does this and that. Wake up and smell reality Ms. Anon. It shouldn't matter anymore. End of story.
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