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writes: I am a female and have known a male friend of mine for over 10 years. Over the time we have had many drunken snogs but just recently we both got drunk and ended up back at my flat and one thing led to another. The next morning was a bit surreal almost as if nothing happened. My question is, how can I make sure that this does not ruin our friend ship? I am not sure why or how it came to this but I know that there is no relationship there but dont want him to think that is what i am looking for.
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reader, LiLKiss +, writes (8 September 2006):
 ok hun, because you know him for so long maybe you should sit and talk to him. admitt that you both got drunk that night and that you didnt wanted to happen because you dont want to destroy your long friendship just for one night,when you havent really had control over what you doing.. and thats the best advice i could give you.. If you decide to do so see his reaction and if you both agree just kinda try not to ever mention it like it never happened...say how you would feel if you lost him as a friend.. good luck hun and things like that happen so try not to make same mistake twice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): I am confused with your question. Why do you have to get drunk in the first place. Do you really care for him more than you are letting on because 10 years is a long time to be playing games like that to one another. All I can suggest to you is stop drinking to be drunk and then you have nothing to doubt.
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