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writes: I am a female, and the other night, I got very drunk with my best friend who is also female, and we share a flat, we slept together, don't know what to do now?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (7 September 2006):
 Well you could talk about it, get it out in the open and discuss where you go from here or you can just let it go and not mention it again. She's probably going through the same thing as you at the moment so you don't want any hostility or embarrassment between the two of you, this is not worth losing a friend over.
I suggest, as hard as it may be to do so, you have to get this out into the open and talk with your friend. Tell her you're a little unsure about what happened and you think it'd be better to talk to about it and discuss it. If you want it to end there and nothing more to happen between you two, which I'm guessing is the case, then you need to make this clear.
As I say, you're probably both going through the same thing so you've got to mention it sooner or later before cracks start to show in your friendship. I hope this works out, it seems silly for a friendship to be lost over some drunken mistake. Good luck.
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