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writes: Hello.I have a problem with my friend.We are both girls. I am 25 she is 29. We went to a concert a few weeks back and met up with one of my male friends. We stayed at his place so we could drink as he lives close by.We had a really good time. We went to a party afterwards and really late about 4am my friend said she wanted to go as she was tired. My friend whose place we were staying at told me he didn't want to leave. I asked him to give my friend the key or give us both the key and we would go back. He didn't want tp do this either. My friend then had a go at me and said she felt stupid because such a fuss was made out of it. Then proceeded to not speak to me for the rest of the night! We had all had a bit to drink and were tired but all I tried to do was resolve the situation. We all agreed to leave together soon after she said she wanted to go.The next day I thought everything was fine as I said sorry about what ever happened she said forget about it and that everything was ok. She said thanks for taking me and speak to you soon.I have been unwell and have to have an small operation in hospital in a few days. I emailed her to ask her how she was and told her about my operation and she has just totally ignored me! I think she is being so selfish! I know after getting to know her better that she seems to really over react when she doesn't get her own way. Quite surprising seeing as she is nearly 30! It's funny how throughout your life people you really liked and had fun with start to really annoy you or upset you in the way they behave.Also when we went on holiday with a group of friends this summer and she pretended it was her birthday to the foreign bar staff so she would get all the attention and it really annoyed me. The plan backfired and we were asked to pay for things we didn't even order! Should I not bother with her anymore? x
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (7 September 2006):
 I think that you should leave it for a while and see if she contacts you. She may not of even recieved your emails, so just be patient and dont bother her until she bothers with you again. At the end of the day you have tried and thats all you can do, the rest Im afraid is down to her. I also think that you need a break from her anyway as she seems to be bugging you quite a lot. Maybe you are to similar or you are spending too much time together. Whatever it is, just have some space and then when you see eachother again you will have loads to talk about, and you will both be really apologetic to eachother. Goodluck hunny and I hope that your operation goes okay. Take care
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