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writes: I am 21 yrs old and for a long while now I have liked females a whole lot longer than males. I've slept with my best friend once and didn't like it and I hate to cuddle with guys and don't mind cuddling with females. I have kissed two girls (2 of my good friends cause we were curious) just a little peck on the lips and it felt nicer than kissing a guy. I still find guys attracive but not as much as girls, does that mean I'm bi? If so how can i find a girlfriend and how do you know if someone is?
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reader, bobbb  +, writes (17 September 2007):
you say you've kissed girls and enjoyed it more than guys ots obvious that yur straight mabe your just courious wondering what it would be like to be with a guy most men do not lke to admit it but we all have had feelings like this at some point
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reader, Robin +, writes (7 September 2006):
Gay or Bi-sexual?Does it really matter?You are only 21 years old and unless you intend to cement your future in your sexuality, i.e. you have somebody that you REALLY love, I wouldn't worry!Back in the dark ages when I was your age there would have been a problem with being labelled for life with the feelings that you have now, times have changed, I spent part of my life as "gay" but as it happens I eventually settled for a "straight" life, met a wonderful woman and never looked back.Women are fortunate in the fact that they are much more sensitive within their relationships than are men, in the initial stages of a relationship men are driven to maintain the line which basically means screwing everything available with impregnation in mind. Basic male drive, not to be belittled! women however are more interested in passion, love and fidelity. Go investigate your sexuality, kiss your girlfriend passionately, buy toys and use them. One good thing is that you can't get preggers!You will only have the one chance to do everything in this life that you want to. Do it whilst you can.Eat, drink and be merry for tomorrow.......
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (7 September 2006):
 It doesn't mean because you like females that you Lesbian.
I for one love kissign girls and looking at them and yes i prefer at times being with girls more than i do men.
Maybe BI. But there is nothing wrong with it ina actual fact alot of people find it sexy.
Even other women. You don't need to find a girlfriend, play the field, go to a club and you'll be amazed at how many women come out of the closet, just keep your eyes open.
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