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writes: i joined this dating site for married people,my relationship with my partner is over anyway and we are both moving on,thing is i met this guy and we hit it off really well and we have been seeing each other for 4 months now,i feel guilty has hell what he is doing to his long term partner.he has something missing in his relationship but doesnt know what.i dont think its for sex as we have only done it 3 times in the time we have been together.thing is he is always looking deep into my eyes,and i feel he may have feelings for me,but dont want to spoil things by asking him.i've fallen for him.thing is he thinks as soon as my ex partner moves out of my house which willbe soon he said i'd proberbly get a proper boyfriend and looked abit worried that i might dump him.should i just let things carry on and see where they lead.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (7 September 2006):
For a start you said that you feel guilty as hell for what he is doing to his long term partner, well you are doing it too, not just him. I think you should leave him. He has no intention of leaving his partner by the sounds of it, and anyway even if you did get with him properly and officially woul you be able to trust him? I mean if he is cheating on his partner with you I am sure that he would more than likely do it to you too. I think he just wants his cake and eat it hunny. Get out before you get deeper! There are plenty of single men out there. Goodluck
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