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writes: I am dating a guy who has 2 kids,we have been seeing each other for 5 months now.The probleme is i think he is still seeing the baby mama.iknow there will always have a bond but he is forver there and at time he can't meet our appointments as he would claim that he had to sit with the kids as the mother is busy doing her hair.i dont mind we can sit with the kids together but no his sitting with the kids at the womans house.what can i do please advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, keepitreal +, writes (7 September 2006):
Not good, Baby mammas arent any good. There always gonna be in the guys life, and they have a past together. ask him you deserve an honest answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): basically you have to talk to him about this situation. yes you are right him and his childrens mother will have a bond forever! they both made the kids! but if u feel he is still involved with her then talk to him! but firstly why would they break up if there wasn't a problem? maybe he is just sticking by her and raising his kids like any decent man would! u need 2 consider whether he is right for you because to me it sounds like jealousy that u dont like him seeing his ex. this is understandable but u have to understand that he has got to be a dad and it his duty to help this woman. if you cant put up with that then maybe find somebody who like you doesn't have children and who doesn't have a past that will affect you!
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