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writes: dear agony auntI'm a 23 year old guy and in luv with my girlfriend of 3 years, I know she luvs me too but something happened that has contradicted our relationship. we've been in a long distant relationship for the last one and a half years and we had promised to stay faithful, i've kept my part of the bargain but I just found out that she cheated on me a couple of months ago. she confessed to a friend the situation with regret she stopped seeing the guy after 2 ocasions. she earlier hinted to me about her mistake when she was around, but she said she only kissed the guy when they spent the nyte. and she still insists that nothing happened. My problem is I luv her and I know she luvs me too, we were actualy planing to get married sometime. but clearly she cheated and my pride, manhood is at stake. How do I know she wont do it again? should I forgive her or should I just let her go. my heart wants her, but my brain tells me no!pliz help!! confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): it is really hard to stay faithful during a long distance relationship... there is really no telling if she will do it again... the one thing i learned from two long distance relationships (the second one i am doing right now), is that certain people need someone there all the time and sometimes... (it hurts to say it), convenience wins...!
if you're brain says no, then find out why you're heart is saying yes...
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reader, keepitreal +, writes (7 September 2006):
Move on long distance never works you need to be able to love and touch eachother not just talk on the phone its not enough ecspecially for a women. She will chaet again but this time she wont tell.
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