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writes: I would like to know how to get over the fact that my ex husband has a new woman in his life a week after he moved out of the marital house. We have been divorced since Sept 2005 but lived together until june 2006. He now has a new woman in his life which I just found out about (apparently he was seeing her before this) but for some reason and I cant figure out why, It is bothering me to the point of crying jags like you would not believe and being in a bad mood all the time. When I see him I want to vomit. While I know, I dont want him it bothers me. Why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): Wot?
Let me get this right; you and your Ex husband lived together for 10 months...he dated as well, he was no longer married...were you both still intimate at this time?
What do you mean you can't figure out why? He divorced you and he must have told you why he wanted a divorce. He wanted to move on and for some reason that eludes me; he stayed 10 months...what was he waiting for some other woman before he could get up the nerve to move out?
Does this man have a good job; self reliant?
You sure you don't want him as the symptoms suggest otherwise.
Just what the heck was going on in the ten months, how long were you married for, what was married life like in your home, and why did he divorce you...or you divorce him?
Either way; you are in need of some individual counselling as there are definite reasons which you are afraid to dredge up and examine as you are already having a hard time coping being in denial.
Sweetie, please just let it go-lay it to rest; you may never fully understand the reason why and to be honest...you shouldn't care...it's over.
Heal. Forgive. Live.
*hugs*
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