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We all have annoying habits! So how does one stop thinking that a loved one will reject us, if they knew about these habits?

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Question - (30 October 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Don't you hate it when you have thoughts like getting into a serious relationship or getting married and thinking "i bet they wouldn't if they knew things like am afraid of the dark, pick your nose, scratch your butt, ever did anything with other girls, having something like OCD, constantly being jealous but not showing it"

ok all these arn't mine but i am giving examples of things people pick on people about. How do you stop thinking things like that? I mean i would post this under relationships but it has alot to do with psychology too if any of you are good with it. Also the people on the singles and dating are rude half the time. I know EVERYONE picks their nose or scratches their butt and this is a serious question too. If not everyone does it then ALOT of people do it ..they just don't tell anyone so is that something you just don't tell your partner?

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A male reader, skywalker +, writes (30 October 2006):

Well some people just dont like doing it.If its avoidable for a few mts,get urself in a private room and scratch your nose or your butt to your hearts content and then come out.In any case,you and your partner should be comfy doing things in front of each other

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006):

Okay, I will tell you that we all do those things you mentioned, even if we don't realize it. I have OCD, too. Thats a part of me. I can't help it. If a man can't accept this, then they aren't the man for me. The right person will love you for who you are. No one is perfect. And, come on, who hasn't scratched their butt before? HAHA.

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A male reader, jack23 +, writes (30 October 2006):

jack23 agony auntIs not something you tell them, but its not something you deny. Everyone is different and no one is perfect, we all have little things we do that people consider rude or weird.

If the person you are with truly cares for you then they will over look any minor habbits you may have, if the same way you over look theirs.

Hope this helps :)

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