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writes:well. i met someone at college he is a really great guy. i told him i liked him and he says he is glad i told him. what does this mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2006): Just try to relax and have fun. Just listen to him mostly, reflect back what he says to you in different terms, for instance if he says "I am really not too crazy about people who treat me like a kid." Say, "so you hate it when people talk down to you." This kind of conversation just allows him to keep opening up to you because it shows you are interested and are listening without judging him...just talk about yourself some and what your interests are. Don't try to be someone you are not because you want him to like the real you.
Sounds like things are going well, so try not to jump ahead too fast and just relax and go with the flow, you will find in no time that you are having fun,
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell... he came online today and said he liked me alot too and that he would like to get to know me better.
i am really happy but the thing is we had met on msn and he seen me today for the first time and the thing is when i saw him my heart kinda skipped a beat (i know it sounds soppy) why is this??. and also he says he wants to meet up again tomorrow at college but i dont have a clue how to start a convo as we have only ever talked on msn!!. what would i talk about!?!?!?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2006): It means the feeling for him is mutual, and he is playing it a little close to the vest, maybe to keep you guessing and interested and to take things at a friendly pace for now, this is a good sign I think....friendship is the basis for all great romantic relationships....if that is where you hope things will go.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (31 October 2006):
 Seems like he has wondered if you have liked him for a while. You say he is a great guy, this to me signals that he has impressed you in some way. I feel he has been trying hard to gain your affection and you have basically told him it worked. Next thing you know, he will be asking you on a date. On the other hand, by saying he was 'glad'is maybe his shy way of saying he likes you too. Does he seem shy? Maybe you could ask him out??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2006): It might mean he is interested in getting to know you better and that he likes you, too. Has he asked you out since you told him? Maybe you could ask him to have lunch with you, or go out somewhere and see what he says.....
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