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writes: I have been going out with this really lovely guy for almost 2 years, But recently I have started to have feelings for my best guy friend instead of my boyfriend. I know the right thing to do is to break up with my boyfriend, but I know that he loves me and that if I left him it would break his heart. I am only 16 and am so confused! Please help! xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006): does your best guy friend like you back? if you're sure he does, go ahead and lose your boyfriend that you know loves you so much. If you are not sure how your guy friend feels about you, do not break up with ur current boyf. He loves you and you love him, by the sounds of things, you must do or you wouldn't be asking us for help!
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reader, childof1981  +, writes (30 October 2006):
 I think the term "Heartbreak" is greatly exaggerated here.
Most people I know during their 16-25 years averaged about 6 relationships, and very few of them were serious. Your BF will get over it, it always sucks to break up but it's not like you are going to inflict the kind of heartbreak that comes with a 30 year marriage collapsing due to spousal infidelity.
Break up with him, it's unavoidable in your age group. I know your relationship looks important now, but in 8 years it will be a footnote in your history.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006): u dont no what u have untill u loose it..but follow ur heart..ur young and im sure he is young too...one day he will meet the ryt gurl..u will be doing him a fava insted of leading him on..u both need time to grow..and meet other people b4 u settle down..but tell him face to face...hug him...be there for him...and dont jump into ur new relationship quickly...take things slowley..be ther for ur boyfreind as a freind n then as months go by ..slowley break the news gently to him about u and ur new man...good luck..freind x
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