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writes: I just got back off holiday and i missed my girlfriend lots and wanted to come home early especially to see her. I wanted to see her as soon as possible but she was busy working and stuff so I went out to the cinema to see a film we had previously planned to see but I went because I had the chance. I didn't realise she would storm off and start crying incredibly loads and blame me for not caring and blank me until midnight then phone me up and talk about it then continue too make me feel guilty.I have felt quite sad and stressed over this strange and bizarre ordeal resulting in a few tears. Is this normal?Do you think my girlfriend was right to act in that way? I felt quite ashamed as I had just back, i felt like i wanted to go back on holiday.Hardly a nice greeting...is it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): Hi Anon, well I can see it from both sides really, You just come back from your Hoilday wanting to get on with with working and stuff which is absolutly fine.
But meanwhile she might of been having a lousy time, because shes been missing you, a bit more then she should have which she probebly couldent help, Thing is girls get caught up in a fantacy somtimes I used to be like this myself!I think that maybe she wanted to run into your arms, like they do in the films practicly the minute you stepped off the plane,
Now this is unrealisic somtimes which we all learn in the end ,just tell her how much you did miss her to put her mind at rest and be really loving towards her and listen to her, But if she carries on reacting really sensitivly, to you needing your space which she should repect, you might need to have a word with her about this because it's not good for her to be dependant on you,
Hopefully this has helped Take care, ditzy blonde chick x
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