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writes: Okay this is for all the male readers. I have been seing this guy lately and he's still a virgin. My case is different because I've had sex with three other boyfriends in the past, and have also done other stuff with other guys. Well, when this guy and I hooked up it was the first time for him to touch a girl's private part without underwear, and also, it was his first time firgering a girl. He said that noone ever touched him downthere without him wearing underwear, so I guess I was the first one on that one too. I also gave him his first blow job. Everytime I start making noise, I see him making this face. Usually, because of the position we're in, I can't see his face clearly, but it looks like he's smiling (with teeth) I asked him why does he think this is funny and he swears to me he wasn't laughing, that he was just making a face. When I was on top of him I saw him making that face, and it made sense, but then, I saw him wanting to smile so bad, I could tell. Is it just me being paranoid or HE DOES think something is funny??? Do you men think is funny when a girl makes noise sometimes???? I was thinking that maybe he thought it was funny because it remainded him of porn or something. Can you please let me know if he might be thinking that me making soft noises is funny??? Cuz it's not like I scream or anything. Is this funny to you boys??? Since he's so unexperienced, he's also too worried about getting herpes or something from the blow jobs. I know I don't have anything but I can tell he can't just relax and enjoy it a 100%. What can I tell him to change his mind and let him know i'm completely healty??? I just got a blood check up about a month ago. I don't know what else to tell him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): For my honest opinion, i like it when my girlfriend makes the little noises. We've never had a gf/bf before each other so we are each others first for everything. I was really nervous and scared because i've never had anything like that done to me before. I've never really made a face before so i don't know why your bf would make a face lol. I guess he's just nervous too. You might just have to get used to it and not let it get to you to much, maybe he won't do the faces later on. I hope this was helpful to you. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006): Re: noises...I love hearing my wife making soft noises during oral. The vibrations and sounds make it a multi-sensory experience, and I feel more comfortable to make my own noises of enjoyment as things progress. So you are doing it right, in my books.
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (30 October 2006):
 Everybody expresses emotions in different ways. He is very inexperienced and is getting things done to him he has never had done before. He probably feels rather pleased with himself, hence all the strange facial expressions. He probably has a big cheesy grin on his face because he is happy and rather chuufed at what is happening.
As for the herpes worry, I would put that down to inexperience and innocence.
If you can't bear with him, move on for his sake and your own. I just can't see a future for this relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2006): Just be rid of him. He can't be worth it. Other guys would treat you better, and they wouldn't be inept either.
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reader, jack23 +, writes (30 October 2006):
 Firstly, if you have been checked by the docs and the results have come back clear, then that should be sufficiant information for your boyfriend to know that you are clean. If is isnt then it will just take time for him to accept.
Secondly I wouldnt worry bout his facial expressions. He may be genuine in that people all make different faces, thsi may just be his. Sayin that the first time you are with someone that makes alot of noise it can take a bit of getting use to, as result you may find it a little fun. I know this as thats what I was like, it will just take him a bit of adapting to as hes not used to it. My current girlfriend almost screams and im always tryna calm her down as to now wake the neighbours.
With that in mind I think the best thing to do is jst give it time and let him adjust.
Hope the info is of some help :)
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