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He says his penis is 'big' around...I have fears he won't get 'past the gate' down there! Should I check with my doctor before attempting?

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Question - (30 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I am a 65 year old woman. My new friend is 61. He says he is 7 inches long and 6 1/2 around. I'm not that "spacious" downstairs (comes with growing older, too) though with guys of smaller size it hasn't been a problem to "accommodate" them for intercourse. I have fears of him not even being able to get past the "gate".........anybody have any ideas? Maybe I should check with a doctor??

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (30 October 2006):

eyeswideopen agony auntMake sure you have some good lubricant like KY oil or jelly and have a go at it. Take your time, I'm sure you'll be just fine.

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A male reader, jack23 +, writes (30 October 2006):

jack23 agony auntThey all come in different shapes and sizes. What I would suggest is just to see how it goes. It seems the issue has already has been discussed, so I think you should just ask him to take it slow and to stop if you ask. If he respects you he will understand and thinks should be fine.

If however it is uncomfortable lubrication would be a good idea, it will help easy him in and make it abit more pleasurable for the both of you.

Hope this helps :)

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