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writes: I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I met up with this guy I worked with just for a chat and we both realised we felt the same way about each other and it made me realise I could never be happy with my Husband and I decided to leave even though nothing had happened with this guy from work. When this guy (who was married himself with a 7yr old daughter) realised I had left my Husband he kept asking if we could meet up and I agreed and after a few weeks he left his wife. I had already moved back with my Parents and he went to stay with one of his brothers and for the next 5 weeks he constantly wanted to be with me and I didn't have any objections to this as I wanted to be with him just as much. My mum then suggested that he move in with us so we could save money to get our own place, he was a little objective at first and then decided he would. I met his daughter and we got on really well and she stayed over at my parents a few times, we lived together for 3 months and had lots of fun, he tool me all over with him, but he also spent quite a lot of time on his computer and I sometimes had a little whinge for this. One day he went to collect his daughter and came back 5 hours later without her and I was quite annoyed that he'd been gone for 5 hours and left me sat on my own. When he came back I asked him where his daughter was and he said she wanted to stop with her Mum, he then announced that he was moving back to his brothers, he said it was cramped and he needed some space, but he would only be at his brothers and still loved me and wanted to be with me, six weeks have now passed and I've had one excuse then another as to why he has done this, he now still say's he loves me but doesn't know what he wants anymore, I am absolutly heartbroken and cannot concentrate especially when we work at the same place. I have told him I love him and want to be with him, but he just can't make a decision. What should I do?
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reader, keysha  +, writes (30 October 2006):
 the funny thing about whats going on with you is the same thing that I am doing to my boyfriend now and the thing thats going on with me is I have found someone else and I really dont want to hurt my boyfriend because I no he loves me so I am doing things ust like your boyfriend hopeing my boyfriend will get the picture but just make him think you no he is into someone else and let him no he iss hurting you more by prolonging it so you can move on with you life dont stay with someone who is trying to play with you like a light switch turning you on and off when he wants to just like you got him work harded to get the next!
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