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writes: im so confused!!!! i know im stright cause iv always liked boys! but last year on holiday i met a girl (just friends like nothing happend) but its odd i still think about her all the time and i think i fance her wats wrong with me? and we havnt kept in touch either
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reader, still friends +, writes (17 October 2006):
I don't think your in any danger of "becoming gay". In fact I beleave you keep thinking of this person becouse she may have helped you get in touch with or find a part of you that made you feel good. Not all attrations are sexual. she just represents something you feel you or your life lacks. Embrace everything she showed you.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 Hey Confused,There is nothing wrong with you. You are a normal healthy woman and you are experimenting with the boundaries of your sexuality.You might very well be straight, and just experienced attraction for another woman. I have been into alternative lifestyles for many years, and sexual thoughts, fantasies, and exploration between women is alot more common than most think. I do not think you should be sharing this with too many people, as depending how close minded they are, could hurt your repuation.This type of boundary probing is perfectly normal for women. In time you might come to the conclusion that you are straight but can appreciate other women, or you may discover that you have emotional love with one gender, and only physical love with the other, or you might be bisexual, or even a lesbian...just slow down, and ease up on yourself. I have a section in my book Everything Out of HEr Mouth is a Test: A MAn's Guide to the Emotional Needs of women, and based on my research and experience with women's sexuality, you are definately normal.-Frank B Kermit
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