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writes: Hello, update i asked a quetion about me falling in love with my best friends girlfriend and that it looked like they were never going 2 split up. Well know she is telling me that she thinks he's boring and all they do is argue, she is seriously coming on 2 me what do i do??!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): I have been in the same situation but also as the gf. I was with my partner for 5 years, I got with him when I was young and I was never happy. Over the years, I grew extremely attracted to his best friend. I didn't choose to grow attracted to him, we just seemed to click like I had never clicked with anyone before. If you really like this girl, I believe you should wait until she has sorted out her issues with her bf, and then do what you need to do. You should not get involved while they are together, as you don't want to get wrapped up in their problems and as he is your best friend, you have a duty to be there for him through their difficulties. Tell her how you feel, but please wait until she has decided what she wants to do with her bf before you make a move.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (18 October 2006):
 You're enjoying the atention too much. This guy is not as good a friend as you say or you would know what to do. Again, take the high road and keep your nose out of this.
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reader, ruby_candy +, writes (17 October 2006):
I've been in the same situation but as the girlfriend...my boyfriend and I had been having problems for a long time and I had just closed my eyes on the fact that things were not the same anymore...my boyfriend's bestfriend had also been my friend for two years....eventually he became who I turned to for advice and to hang out...but feelings grew and I told him how I felt and he said he felt the same but was planning to wait till I broke up to tell me...anyways, it didn't up pretty bad...long story...but in the end we followed our hearts and he became my bestfriend and the greatest love of my life...my advice to you: if you can see yourself with this girl and are sure it is worth sacrificing your relationship with your friend then go for it...but I would tell her to sort out her stuff first and to either break up with him or not....but make a decision...waiting doesn't help...it only makes it worse...believe me!
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reader, !x!T!x!  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 just say no!!!!...shes obviously trouble if she can do that to your friend she'll do the same to you. you should be backing your friend up over this poisinous bitch!!! the next thing you need to think about is the steps you can take to letting your friend know what shes up to without you being made out the bad one and try and do it without hurting him as much as possible...just remember be careful coz she could easily turn it round and make it look like your trying to split them up!!! you need some hard evidence...have fun :P !!!
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