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writes: what can i do? i had a girlfriend when i was 10 and that lasted a week! since than nothing i'm 16 now. i believe i'm a nice person, kind, loving, caring. i hate myself for this. it's always me fancyin someone and never anyone fancyin me back. i'm desperate for a relationship. i'm ready to give her the world! but that's if someone loves me. but it's my looks. i've got big eyes. i'm ugly. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006): hey dude don't rush you're only 16 look at me i'm 40 years old alone (but not lonely) for the last 5 years. and yes i'm also desperate for that someone special who will truly love me because i have so much love to give... but i'm very careful because girls can play games too... so be yourself, look after yourself (make sure you have a very good hygiene), talk, look and act confident (but not conceited), volunteer work at school or community, be active in sports if not in social clubs.. don't isolate yourself and feeling desperate.. start a good relationship with female friends and don't rush into anything...treat women well the way you want your mom or sisters to be treated. treat others with respect.. enjoy life..good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006): What can you do? The first thing you can do is stop saying you are ugly! That is negative self-speak and believing that is what is dragging you down! When I hear someone talk about themselves like that, I really cringe. What you feel about yourself will project bad vibes to anyone you potentially want to date. This is why one has to truely like themselves first, before embarking on sharing themselves in a good love relationship. In other words, you gotta 'love yourself', guy! That is where the root of this problem lies. So do the work on your confidence and a whole wonderful, new world will open up for you. Take it one step at a time. Don't rush this process...give yourself a ton of self care, first and realize, you are worth it after all. Good luck and take care
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